Daily Appreciation
Consistently expressing genuine gratitude for his hard work, provisions, and character instead of focusing only on his flaws.
Hearing that his efforts are noticed and valued is profoundly important to his ego and sense of self worth. Your sincere appreciation motivates him to go above and beyond for the family.
“They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, 'I have never received any good from you.'”
“My husband is Abu Zar` and what is Abu Zar`? He has given me many ornaments... And he has pleased me, and I have become so happy that I feel proud of myself.”
“Whoever some good was done to him, and he says: 'May Allah reward you in goodness' then he has done the utmost that he can of praise.”
“Narrated Abu Hurayrah: The Prophet (ﷺ) said: He who does not thank the people is not thankful to Allah.”