Marriage First
Ensuring the marital bond remains the foundational priority of the home rather than allowing the relationship to become secondary to the children.
When you actively invest in him alongside your motherly duties, he never feels neglected or pushed aside. He experiences a deep partnership that brings security to both of you and your children.
“I said, "Yes, O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)!" He said, "Do not do that! Observe the fast sometimes and also leave them (the fast) at other times; stand up...”
“Thauban reported Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) as saying: The most excellent dinar is one that a person spends on his family, and the dinar which he spends...”
“Abu Huraira reported Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) as saying: Of the dinar you spend as a contribution in Allah's path, or to set free a slave, or as a...”