Expecting Mind Reading
Expecting your husband to inherently know what you need or want without clearly telling him.
Expecting a partner to possess telepathic abilities sets them up to fail. It breeds silent resentment when needs go unmet and leaves him feeling confused and helpless.
What this looks like
Sighing loudly near a full sink of dishes hoping he will notice and wash them.
Responding with "nothing" when asked what you want for a gift, while secretly expecting a grand, thoughtful gesture.
Feeling unloved because he did not initiate a specific conversation or activity you were privately hoping for.