Mindful Speech

Exercising self control with her words by knowing when to stay quiet rather than making unnecessary, provoking, or shaming comments.

A husband feels respected and safe when he knows his wife will not verbally attack him or pick at him unnecessarily. Her self restraint diffuses tension and creates a peaceful, harmonious environment.

Modern relationship guidance
Prophetic example
Book 4, Hadith 50

“Narrated Asma' bint Abu Bakr: I came to `Aisha the wife of the Prophet (ﷺ) during the solar eclipse. The people were…”

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Book 59, Hadith 77

“Narrated Abu Wail: Somebody said to Usama, "Will you go to so-and-so (i.e. `Uthman) and talk to him (i.e. advise him…”

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Book 78, Hadith 49

“Narrated Abu Huraira: Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "Anybody who believes in Allah and the Last Day should not harm his…”

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Book 81, Hadith 161

“Narrated Abu Huraira: Some people said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! Shall we see our Lord on the Day of Resurrection?" He…”

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Book 96, Hadith 18

“Narrated Asma' bint Abu Bakr: I came to `Aisha during the solar eclipse. The people were standing (offering prayer) and…”

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Book 1, Hadith 356

“Abu Haraira reported: The people said to the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ): Messenger of Allah, shall we see our Lord on the…”

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